Are we back in the 70s America where “free love” was a thing? When sex was not seen in unity with serious relationships, marriage and adultery. The philosophy seeks to break out from societal interference. A woman from Florida seems have adopted this ideology knowingly or unknowingly.
An unemployed 24 year Heidy Pandora defines herself as a “full-time traveler.” She has visited more than 20 countries with her travel dates and all that for free. She found a way to live this lifestyle through a dating site called Miss Travel.
Heidy explains that she has been suffering from depression and traveling saved her life as she has been able to lead a normal life. She discards the tag of being a “gold-digger” as her motive is not to churn out money from the men she meets. Her dates include vacationing with married men as well, which attracts criticism.
I don’t see it as such a big deal to have sex with married men. If they’re married and looking somewhere else, they’re not happy. Some of them don’t have any sexual relationship with their wives anymore.
She has never been pressured into having sex with any of her dates and informs that sex is not a necessary part of the deal. If they don’t tune sexually, then having as much fun becomes the motive. She finds dating married more convenient.
So (dating married men is) an advantage in a way that they will not get emotionally connected to me. And they will not want to pursue anything.
Heidy has plans for her future as she is saving money. However, right now traveling is her priority. Traveling is an expensive affair, she realizes, therefore this set up is the best deal she could find.
I don’t pay for anything. You can do half and half but I prefer not to.
She is aware of the bad names that people call her, but nothing deters her spirit as she has the full support of her family. She has separated the taboo of sex in exchange of good times that both consenting partners enjoy.