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Twinkle Khanna’s Blog On TVF CEO, Arunabh Kumar’s Molestation Controversy Is A Slap On His Face

Published on 21 March, 2017 at 1:42 pm By

Actor turned author, Twinkle Khanna aka Mrs. Funnybones is famous for her straight forward opinions and tweets full of witty remarks. She has again written about one of the burning issues and that is TVF CEO, Arunabh Kumar’s molestation controversy. Arunabh Kumar has been accused of molesting his female employees.


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Twinkle has talked about how India is suffering from sexual harassment at work and the molestation controversy of Arunabh Kumar. She has made some bang on points that are definitely giving a tight slap on Arunabh Kumar’s face. Here is what she wrote in her last blog for TOI.

 

In a corner office with a view sits a loathsome frog, his tongue intermittently darting at all the little file-toting flies. This frog is not interested in turning into a prince — he already believes he is one — and stares bug-eyed at the flies, his toys or his employees whatever moniker fits them best in his mind.

Some of the big frogs caught in a net in recent times are Phaneesh Murthy who had to resign from Infosys after his secretary Reka Maximovitch accused him of sexual harassment, Tarun Tejpal who created a Tehelka with his elevator antics and a man whose picture I had framed and displayed when my son shared a stage with him, RK Pachauri, then director general of The Energy and Resources Institute (TERI), who was later accused of sexually harassing a researcher at the organisation.

A few days ago another big frog was added to the list and came in for some virtual dissection — The Viral Fever CEO Arunabh Kumar who is now making people’s temperatures rise in a way he probably never expected.


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His innocence or guilt will be revealed with time but a single comment attributed to him,

‘I am a heterosexual single man and when I find a woman sexy, I tell her she is sexy. I compliment women, is that wrong?’

doesn’t just make alarm bells ring but is more akin to the hooting of the siren on top of a politician’s car that speeds through traffic lights and pushes its way through crammed spaces, declaring that here is a privileged someone who believes that the rules are meant for everyone else.

By calling a woman ‘sexy’ in a working environment, you are undermining everything she has worked for, the stereotypes she has had to break, the pride she takes in her abilities, and the inevitable guilt that she feels about not being home with her children, just to be there in that office, trying to make her place in the world.



 

Have any frogs tried to catch me between their webbed feet? Unfortunately, the answer is yes.

A few years ago, a message on my phone reduced me to tears in the car. I had reached breaking point after months of suggestive messages from a wealthy, powerful client that I had been pretending not to understand because all I wanted to do was to complete the project in a professional manner. And so I ended up as a statistic — the 38% of women who faced sexual harassment at work, according to a survey done by the Indian National Bar association.

I am a fairly assertive woman, and married to a man who onscreen punches holes in walls with his bare fists and yet I haven’t been spared, so I shudder to think about what happens to the vast majority of working women.

 

In order to merely do our jobs, we ignore the hostile work environment, keep quiet, smile politely at sexist comments and pretend that the pepperoni pizza we are being served masquerading as a margherita is acceptable. We pick off the pieces of baloney from the surface and throw it into the garbage, focusing only on the parts we can digest, our stomachs constantly churning.

But equations are rapidly changing and the frogs need to change as well or who knows in time, legions of capable, strong and absolutely fed-up women may make Sultana’s Dream written by Rokeya Sakhawat Hussain a reality. She was a feminist, writer and social reformer who wrote this story in 1905 about a utopia where women run everything, end a war non-violently and restore health and beauty to the world. The men are locked away, their usefulness negated by technology which enables labourless farming. The men reside in Mardana, the male version of the traditional Zenana and tend to domestic chores since no one can trust these ‘untrained men out of doors’.

So dear members of the Frogs Forever Franchise we realise that having one X chromosome less probably leads to a diminished brain and raises your testosterone levels to feverish heights but here is some advice. There are bars, clubs, friends’ homes, Tinder, and your first cousin Guddu’s wedding where ideally you should meet women and ask them out. But if your heart beats fiercely at the sight of a particular woman walking down the office corridor, respectfully ask her out for a drink, and if she refuses your polite offer then go and drown your sorrows in that very drink and leave her alone.

 

Do not stalk her, touch her, send her lewd messages and emails. And as far as compliments go, try telling her about her great presentation skills, her way with numbers, her astute negotiations. ‘Sexy’ is an acceptable compliment within a work environment only if she is a stripper and you are her pimp trying to boost her confidence before she takes the stage.

Telling a woman she is sexy in the bedroom is fine, telling her the same thing in the boardroom simply deplorable. So think before you croak or it may just be your turn to be doused in formaldehyde and dissected next.


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