So you just met an amazingly beautiful and a level-headed girl who seems a “date worthy one” for you. Sadly, you lack the powerful brainwaves of attraction but you’re desperate to bring her into your league. Hold on cowboy! We know you’ve the best intentions in your heart but you’re clueless about what to do and how to do. So, here is our bit of advice. And if you fail to bring her on your boat, pack your bag, move ahead and search a new chick. One day you’ll really break the ice!
10. Maintain eye contact.
Let your eye contact hang around for an additional second or two and try to map the frequency and amplitude of her blinks. During this nonverbal communication, if she blinks rapidly then make sure she is feeling uneasy. But if her blinking is slower; she is interested in your deal. Move ahead cowboy!
9. Avoid sexual remarks.
If you’re opening the sex door too soon, your impression of being a gentleman will be promptly washed away. She can easily interpret that you conceive girls as merely a piece of meat.
8. Be well-groomed, always.
Don’t skip daily shower, proper shave, brushing teeth, clean clothes and blah blah blah. Accelerate your attractive factor.
7. Don’t exaggerate yourself.
Honestly, if someone wants to love you; they will love you for who you are, not who you are trying to be. Boy, be original and one day she will definitely pat your back with “oh! you’re awesome” kind of look.
6. Make her laugh, as much as you can.
If you are not skilled in this job, watch a classic Hollywood movie and pay attention on the dialogues of actors by which actresses start cracking up. Try it, develop some funny bones.
5. Play guitar (or any musical instrument).
If you don’t know how to play guitar, you better join a class or start taking help from YouTube. Try it honestly, otherwise after couple of months you will be still a crap dragging her to sit through your torturous gigs, thus losing the chances to take her on your radar.
4. Take her advice.
Don’t blow your own horn, give her some space and listen sincerely while she gives you an honest opinion.
3. Make her to qualify herself.
Give her extra time to qualify herself rather than telling her about your crap of achievements or how much bucks you banged last weekend while partying in the most expensive club around.
2. Compliment her often.
Girls sustain on three things: food, water and compliments. But yeah, your compliments should be genuine.
1. Convey your intent gradually.
Remember to avoid using “I Love You” straightforwardly as this statement has brought generations of gentlemen to their demise. Your care, respect and appreciation for her are the biggest things which you can offer. Demonstrate your intentions with actions rather than words.