Involving the families is a big NO!
Great orators like Socrates, Winston Churchill, Jawaharlal Nehru, Abraham Lincoln, and Swami Vivekananda gave speeches that left the audience spell bound and truly elated. They seemed to have the talent as an inborn gift, which cannot be replicated by anyone and everyone.
We all love to be cool! And in the recent culture we must have noticed that the definition of cool has changed for everyone. Everyone has a different interpretation of the word cool and we live by our own definitions.