While on one hand, we are taking relationships to a level where they mean nothing more than a swipe left and a right, on the other hand we have people who stoop to greatest lows of hatred and disgust in insulting their ex partners.
This brave woman has come forward to keep everything at stake and call out her four year old ex-boyfriend who has got down to ridiculous levels of so-called-revenge.
She has shared his voice chats and his screenshots of his messages where he is found pestering her for nude pictures with a promise of not sharing and thereby, deleting her old nude pictures. What kind of hypocrisy is this?
I hope this letter finds you in the pink of health because after this, I don’t know if there will ever be any health again for you. So, as a considerate ex girlfriend, I’m keeping your identity a secret (well almost) and I would like to start with saying sorry because I can’t let this opportunity go a waste.
And now the more important part, you’re mentally ill.
…Someone needs to hold your leash before you go astray and rape an innocent female tomorrow. Thank me later! If anything, I’m saving you from becoming a rapist.
…To be honest, it scared me. Your voice, the way you said things, the way you kept saying yes or no, all of it scared me. I kept quiet, stupidly, almost cowardly. It’s always a reflex with us girls, you know. When a man does something he’s not supposed to, our reflex shuts us up for a moment. Unfortunately, by the time we come back to our senses to react, it’s too late. But no sir, it’s not too late for you and me. We’re just getting started.
That day you woke up all kinds of angry Indian goddesses in me and I’m glad. So, thank you. Truth is we need men like you to be stripped naked in front of the world to teach our sons and daughters well in the future. And I will do exactly that today.
She dated him four years ago when he acted like a gentlemen. However, she admits it was her mistake when was too blinded by love to see through his abusive behaviour in two years of their relationship. Apparently, that is when she walked away and fell for someone else. Seems like, it hurted his ego way too much – so much that he has come for a ”revenge” after all these years.
I don’t remember giving you the right to my life when I dated you once. Then, how dare you question my choices in life? You abused me again and again and again ever since I got over you.
My fault is I broke my silence now. This time, you’re showing signs of turning into a rapist and I find it to be my moral duty to stop this now. You abused me, made a scene all the time when we were together, I kept shut. I dated you because I had feelings for you, but your abusive and pushy nature made me get over you. And I’m not sorry for that.
I signed up to date a caring man who helped me settle in a new city but you turned out to be a nightmare! I still kept in touch, even when you moved to Hyderabad. All that, as a friend, to return the favour.
Don’t get me wrong. I was grateful but you got what you wanted out of your niceness! Now, I’m in no way entitled to give you what you want when you want it. My body is mine and you have no right to demand anything out of it.
You want me to strip for you, do a naked video chat SO you can delete my other naked pictures. Do you hear yourself? Does this sentence make sense to you?
She continues talking about how he used to pester her of suicide threats. But in no way, she admits to take that route in shame of what she shared in love and trust.
If you’re so desperate to see someone die for you, look at your parents die a little after they read this. They’ll want to hang their heads in shame that they gave birth to a piece of shit like yourself. So, STOP giving ‘committing suicide’ to me as an “option”. It never was and you’re right, you shouldn’t believe me when I say I’d commit suicide because I’m definitely pro-life. However, I did believe it every time you blackmailed me with that threat. I know you’re capable of it, you are that insane and weak, and so I forced myself to keep in touch with you. But, no more. You’re not my responsibility.
You need help but you’re getting nothing from me.
Now, go shag to all my pictures that you have saved in your Google Drive because you’re most certainly getting no more.
So, here you go with my answer that you oh-so-desperately sought.
My answer is NO.
And for certainly my friend, a NO means a NO.
Read her entire letter here.