What is little noticed by Indian husbands can be extremely obnoxious for their better halves to bear with. Small habits of Indian men can cause distress and fury to their wives to kill their “honey you’re so sweet” feeling and replace it with “what a disgusting man I’ve got married to.”
Lucky if your husband is nothing like ordinary Indian husbands, but if he is, you’ll completely relate with the following habits, utterly resentful to most Indian wives-
This is so typical of Indian men – they will never take their towel to the balcony after a shower, but always leave it on the bed. No matter if it wets the bed sheet or presents an ugly sight for the guests, they will never listen to their wife, and expect her to put it out for drying.
As soon as the weekend hours begin, husbands usually fall in love with their bed, not leaving it for one minute. They will sleep in the same bed, ask for tea, lunch and dinner right there sitting inside the bed like they were paralyzed. With the TV on all day, it either has to be cricket or news. And if you ask them to take a bath, well, you’ve ruined their weekend.
They may have gotten married to you for the impressive food you cook, but after marriage that also becomes once upon a time. Watching TV, checking their emails, and sorting out papers just before meals are their favorite time pass. Dinner will get cold, but they will most likely not be concerned.
Maybe you got married to a clean shaved and well kempt guy only to realize later on that he never likes to shave during the weekends. Guys usually get very lazy during the weekends and since they already have a wife at home, there’s no need wasting time on essential grooming to look good for any prospects either.
Most Indian husbands like everything placed in order, but they don’t like to do it themselves. They expect their wife to do it for them. In the morning they can never find a thing on their own. From their tooth brush, paste, shirts, shoes and socks, everything needs to be fed to them. Even when you place everything at the exact same place, they will never remember or make an effort to find them.
Two things all Indian men want to do in the morning is read the newspaper in a quiet corner and smoke a butt (if they smoke at all). But for some reasons the quietest corner in the house seems to be the bathroom, where they can get locked safely from the world and do what they please. They will smoke in the bathroom, sit there for half an hour and leave it reeking of cigarette that is so much detestable to all Indian wives.
I mean C’mon! Wives may not have a good sleep thanks to their snoring husbands, but in the morning their husbands will wake up again to complain “I couldn’t sleep the whole night baby, you occupy the whole bed and leave no room for me to sleep.”
They may never like home cooked food, but will love snacking on the bed while they’re watching TV or completing office work. They will get engrossed and forget about eating manners, spill everything around, and when you ask them to get up to change the bed sheets they will grin at you. If not for their wives, they would sleep in the same mess and not mind it.