So, you just met an amazingly beautiful and a level-headed girl who seems a “date worthy one” for you. Sadly, you lack the powerful brainwaves into the mechanism of attraction; but on other side, you’re desperate to bring her into your league. Hold on cowboy! We know you’ve the best intentions in your heart but you’re clueless about what to do and how to do. So, here we go with top 10 ways to impress a girl, salvaging your dooming chances. And if you fail to bring her on your boat; pack your bag, move ahead and search a new chick. One day you’ll really break the ice!
10. Maintain eye contact:
Well, this process is just like a big tell in poker. An eye contact expresses more intimacy, self-confidence and sexiness than anything else you could do to lure her. Let your eye contact hang around for an additional second or two and try to map the frequency and amplitude of her blinks. During this nonverbal communication, if she blinks rapidly then make sure she is feeling uneasy. But if her blinking is slower; she is interested in your deal. Move ahead cowboy!
9. Avoid sexual remarks:
No doubt, sex is the most essential aspect of human nature but when you’re trying to encircle her in your ring, you should avoid this topic for couple of days. In order to impress a girl, you’ve to cover plenty of other subjects before landing on x-rated stuffs. If you’re opening the sex door too soon, your impression of being a gentleman will be promptly washed away. She can easily interpret that you conceive girls as merely a piece of meat.
8. Be well-groomed:
You judge girls based on the way they look and thus they do the same with you. Your eery dressing sense or even a hint of body odor can kill the chances of securing future’s deal. However, boys are notorious for skipping daily shower, proper shave, brushing teeth, clean clothes and blah blah blah, but when it comes to impress a girl, you have to accelerate your attractive factor.
7. Don’t exaggerate yourself:
Dude, being a Casanova is a different thing but in order to enhance your appearance, you often become a beaten-up spider-monkey mutant. Honestly, if someone wants to love you; they will love you for who you are, not who you are trying to be. Boy, be original and one day she will definitely pat your back with “oh! you’re awesome” kind of look.
6. Make her laugh:
Discard your super-smooth and severely seductive pickup lines as they have nothing to do with make her laugh. To be very honest, if you’re serious and willing to impress a girl then you have to pretend yourself different from truckload of boring guys. If you are not skilled in this job, watch a classic Hollywood movie and pay attention on the dialogues of actors by which actresses start cracking up. Try it, develop some funny bones, and you’ll definitely become the kind of guy she’d love to meet again.
5. Play guitar:
Call her to a spot in a style worthy of a surprise party, play her a song that suits best to the situation and let the impressiveness ensue. If you don’t know how to play guitar, you better join a class or start taking help from YouTube. But you have to be honest while coughing up bucks for a few guitar lessons. Just because of having a John Mayer poster on your bedroom wall and daydreaming about how well you must do in front of her isn’t enough to get a positive signal. Try it honestly, otherwise after couple of months you will be still a crap dragging her to sit through your torturous gigs, thus losing the chances to take her on your radar.
4. Take her advice:
Okay, here’s the big deal. Doesn’t matter you conceive yourself as a Nobel laureate or a nerd who is capable to solve even the mysteries of Bermuda Triangle; you have to take her advice in order to make an impressive call. Don’t blow your own horn, give her some space and listen sincerely while she gives you an honest opinion. If still you’re continuing your bullheadedness, prepare yourself to go into the shut down mode.
3. Make her to qualify herself:
If you’re constantly trying to qualify yourself while impressing her, chances are you’ll come across like an outright moron. Give her extra time to qualify herself rather than telling her about your crap of achievements or how much bucks you banged last weekend while partying in the most expensive club around. Without sounding judgemental, ask her some good questions that slenderly challenge her. Indeed, this tactic is a surefire way to make a girl your commodity. .
2. Compliment her often:
Girls sustain on three things: food, water and compliments. If you are determined to roll off overnice compliments periodically, then one day benefits will come back to you, for sure. But yeah, your compliments should be genuine because attention-starved girls are smart enough to interpret the situation whenever you try to flood the air with empty flattery. The way you deliver a compliment sends a supremely powerful message to her and she can easily judge about your feelings for her.
1. Convey your intent gradually:
Now, here’s the time to incorporate all of your herculean efforts with little tell-tell signs that you love her. But remember to avoid using “I Love You” straightforwardly as this statement has brought generations of gentlemen worldwide to their demise. Your care, respect and appreciation for her are the biggest things which you can offer. Demonstrate your intentions with actions rather than words, and your actions will convey everything to her.
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