Top 10 Reasons of Divorce

1:21 pm 6 Sep, 2012

How come there are reasons of divorce when “we shall be together forever and after till death do us part!” is the quintessential vow with which two lovelorn souls often set foot on their journey towards the happily ever after? Marriage is a complex partnership. It needs to be worked at daily and constantly. Sometimes you are pushed against the wall while at times it’s akin to simple cake walks. Just as life, marriage too has its share of ups and downs and you can never tell what lies just round the corner. Divorce and moving away is certainly not the best way to deal with marital problems yet it happens. What could be the reasons for a couple once head over heels in love breaking the chords of marriage? What are the top 10 reasons of divorce? Read along to find out.

 

10. Conflicting priorities:

A couple is formed when two distinct individuals come together. We know it well that no two individuals are identical; even greater the differences between opposite sexes. Though one may discuss about several issues and concern before entering into a marriage but it is impossible to anticipate a situation which may arise later on. At that time; the reactions and the outlooks of the two may be entirely contradictory. The wife may still want to support her family after marriage while the husband might want her to focus all her resources towards his own family. You never know what could stir up that storm. However it is always good to talk things out and arrive at a level of compromise instead of walking the divorce highway.

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9. Alcohol:

One of the big reasons of divorce is alcohol. When the consumption of alcohol becomes an urge or an addiction; it turns into a curse to any marriage. It not only ruins a person physically and financially but it casts havoc on relationships. Abusive relations are often the by-product of alcohol obsession. An addict is not only unpredictable but often dangerous to the family mostly when there are children around. The habit is malignant and it gradually eats up marriages and bonds. It is hence often the cause for a couple’s split.

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8. Different backgrounds:

Love marriage between individuals belonging to different social strata or backgrounds is often one of the reasons of divorce. Something as basic as the eating habit may be the ignition point which leads to a huge explosion in the haven of happiness. While one may be a non-vegetarian the other may not be able to stand eating in the same table when something other than vegetarian is served. These may look like very small issues but over time they may be the cause for friction between couples. Giving up things one had grown up with is often hard.

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7. Parenting issues:

Often the entire responsibility of taking care of the child falls on the wife. Having already carried the child for nine months and going through the emotional and physical changes during child birth; it may become a cause for concern if the husband doesn’t share the parenting responsibilities. It is seen that men often view providing for the child and bringing in money to the family as the end of their responsibility. But that isn’t enough; a father needs to take equal share in everything related to the child. Remember it is a partnership and not a one sided affair.

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6. Religious differences:

When one is hit by Cupid’s bow all differences disappear. Religion whether same or not doesn’t seem to be an issue. It might as well not be one if the couple learns to respect each other’s beliefs. Couples may enter into the marriage after having discussed all pros and cons but something unexpected may turn up which may actually take the marriage at the verge of divorce. You celebrate different festivals and if yours is not given equal importance as is desired of you by the other; things may tend to go the wrong way. But again at these stages one needs to harness the feeling of love that brought them together in the first place instead of giving up.

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5. Lost magic:

The charm of the relationship may die down as years pass by and as responsibilities grow. While most couples may live through it but for some the monotonous nature of their bond may be a major cause for anxiety. In such cases one should remember that it is up to the husband and wife to keep the magic and attachment alive. They need to make efforts to let the other know how important they are and create occasions of celebrations and joy.

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4. Financial issues:

In the modern day with both the spouses working and being financially independent, the sharing and ownership of assets may be a hot bed of concerns. The distribution of financial burden may be something that leads to marital discord. Often it is seen that not encroaching on each other’s earnings and sharing the cost for everything mutually and in a manner that neither is burdened might be a better option. Remember whenever monetary issues creep into a relationship it is better to nip the matter in the bud.

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3. Sexual dissatisfaction:

One of the prime reasons of divorce is this. Often sexual incompatibility causes deep rooted problems in a marriage. A marriage is, as has been said over and over across the world, a union of two individuals emotionally and physically. It is a very important aspect of any marriage and shouldn’t be ignored. In fact it is always good to have open communication between the partners to work out such issues. In fact professional help is also available and should be sought instead of ending the marriage in such cases.

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2. Abuse:

Any kind of abuse – be it physical, mental or emotional – may lead to the threads of a marriage being ruptured right in the middle. There is only a point up to which a person whether husband or wife may tolerate and the angst may virtually result in divorce. Often it is seen that wives are abused by not only the husband but even the in-laws. You may have talks and try to work things out however usually they don’t when things get out of control and hence in such cases divorce is definitely the one and only option preferred over suffering silently.

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1. Infidelity:

If there is one thing that is unforgivable by most partners and spouses; it is infidelity. Trust and love are the basis of any marriage. When that breaks it is hard to get back together. Reconciliation might happen but if it doesn’t it is always better to move away before it harms both individuals. Marriage minus love and faith is just a partnership which is destined to end at a time in the future and therefore infidelity on top of the reasons of divorce.

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