I draw her towards me and kissed her with ferocity and urgency. I could feel a blaze of fire rushing through my body, as we melted in each other arms and surrender ourselves completely. Making love slowly, languorously and experiencing the tenderness as we lay in silence for a long time and our breathing returns to its normal pace. Thought there was no physical contact between words and the you (reader), but my playful art of intimacy in the above lines made you visualize the scene in your conscious mind. That’s the extraordinary power of art. Thus, sex is an emotion, an art which can felt through words, paintings or craft. You need not be tangled physically to feel it.
Here are the reasons why sex is a an art:
1. It is necessary
Just as for an artist, his art becomes his necessity for satisfaction and survival, in the same way, sex is the needful thing for pleasure. The more you try to abstain from it, the more jumbled your sexual fantasies become.
2. It is fulfilling
A writer after completing his soulful piece of art escapes from the demented demons ruling his mind. After-sex moments are absolute bliss, your sexual high will switch off the world and if you are the master between the sheets, you will express your happiness in the purest form with your partner.
3. It is liberating
Sex relieves stress and love causes it. When you love someone madly, sex is bound to happen at some time to liberate those undesirable anxieties and madness. A writer too breaks from his prison of eagerness and impatience when he finishes his writing.
4. It is all about emotions
Deepak chopra rightly quoted “Sex is always about emotions. Good sex is about free emotions; bad sex is about blocked emotions”. Every sexual act has an emotional origin, just as writing is produced by the overflow of clouded sentiments
5. It is incomplete without passion
If you are not a passionate writer, your writing will lack honesty and originality. Also, casual sex can never replace the passionate sex. Causal sex will help to unchain your sexual experiences but it can never give your satisfaction. The greatest pleasure isn’t sex, but the passion with which it is done.
6. It is addictive
No writer after his first story stops to write. It becomes a compulsion forever. Sex is never enough, it’s hunger and desperation multiplies with every encounter.
7. It helps you to find yourself
A writer discovers new things about himself as he picks up the pen everyday. Every story takes him on a journey within. Without enjoying the sexual energy of love, one always remain distant from himself.
8. Most importantly, it sells just as art
Writing is a drug and sex is a taboo. When a semi-naked woman appears on the playboy cover, it automatically creates a sexual desire among males, which is very natural and hence it sells. And this quickie ( listicle) will sell it 😉