Almost all guys become clueless when it comes to reading signs. And when it comes to flirting, it can get pretty confusing to understand what’s going on in a girl’s mind. Women can be unpredictable and they are masters of subtlety, so you must remain alert to every signal, each word and each move that she throws at you. So, if you’ve been wondering about a girl on your mind whether she is just being friendly or actually making subtle passes at you, here are the sure signs that you need to start decoding!
1. Pay attention to her body language.
Reading a woman’s body language is one of the time-tried approaches to tell if she’s actually putting the move on you. But if you catch her sitting beside you with her legs crossed toward you or her feet pointed in your direction, she’s most likely enjoying the conversation.
2. Notice if she is fidgeting.
When she’s around you, does she start fixing her clothes, twisting her rings, licking or pursing her lips, or twirling her hair? If she does these things while making eye contact, it does indicates she’s apprehensive but is attracted to you.
3. Pay attention to her speech.
If her voice begins to get higher or lower when you are around, it shows that she likes you. People do change the tone of their voices when they’re close to somebody they’re acctracted to.
4. She ignores YOU, in particular.
Some girls, out of nervousness or shyness, will talk to everyone but the person she likes and act like they don’t exist for them. She may appear totally uninterested, but most likely will have a huge crush on you and is just socially awkward, and waiting for you to break into a conversation with her. So, don’t think twice and talk to the girl who has been deliberately ignoring you.
5. See how frequently she looks at you.
Do you catch her looking at you every time you look her way? If she quickly glances away when you catch her looking, then looks back, she’s is interested in you. Go up to her, introduce yourself, and get her talking.
6. She smiles at you.
This will not be an anxious or forced smile, but a genuine one. If she shows her teeth and has that sparkle in her eye, then you can conclude that she’s enjoys your company. Your only job is to keep her smiling by smiling back.
7. She starts up the conversation, most of the times.
She’s always initiating conversations with you whether it is about how your day went or the latest movie she watched. Girls usually wait for the guy to approach, so this is a really good sign for you.
8. She stalks you on Facebook without hiding it.
You get random notifications of her liking your photos from two years ago on Facebook and expects that you notice it. That implies she is eager to know more about you and wants to stay updated about your life.
9. She’ll send you random text messages.
Is she constantly trying to get a hold of you online? Does she send you “good morning” or “goodnight” texts? These are clear signs that she’s thinking about you and trying to start up a conversation.
10. There’s never a conclusion of a conversation with her.
She answers every question with a question to keep the small talk going. She’d never end the discussion with a basic ‘bye’, she generally keeps it open ended so that it can continue on the following morning.
11. She will give you a flirtatious nickname.
This is one of the powerful flirting signs. This is a way to remind you of a joke or a moment you share and to reinforce your connection. And, if she makes up a nickname that only she uses for you, she’s clearly flirting.
12. She laughs at everything you say.
She’ll be the first to giggle at your jokes, regardless of how senseless or stupid they are. This might be her subtle method for complimenting you. She needs you to know that you amuse her and that you’re a blast to be around with.
13. She compliments you a lot.
Women are scanty with compliments so if she tosses one your way, you can pat yourself. And if the compliment is about your great physique, its subtly saying that she is attracted to you.
14. She makes an effort to get you to notice her.
Notice if she yells or roars with laughter whenever you are around or pass her by. She is trying to have you notice her by throwing a sign your way that she is interested in you. And, if she smiles at you on her way, consider your job half done.
15. She teases you more often.
If she’s being a little sassy, and grinning and laughing as she lightly makes fun of something you said or did, she’s is flirting with you. Tease her back if you wish to flirt. Don’t say something extremely hurtful, it could ruin the date.
16. She makes sexual remarks.
There’s invariably a small fun loving sexual undercurrent in each conversation she has with you. If she steers the conversation to sexier topics, she may be attempting to tug you into a flirting crescendo that may result in veritable verbal foreplay.
17. She touches you often.
If the girl is touching you while she’s snickering at your jokes, or listening eagerly to your story, it’s because she’s interested. As a man you must pay attention to the subtleties during an interaction as they are critical pointers of where you stand.
18. She insists on meeting you.
In fact, she’s the one constantly making plans to meet and those plans never include anyone other than you two. Take the hint and grab the chance to date her.